How to train your puppything.
This is a repost/archive of two reddit posts, with gender pronouns changed.
How to train your puppything
Guide to having your own puppy boy.
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Talk to him like a dog. He won’t mind. Be condescending, and talk to him like you would a dog whenever you want. He’s your little puppy, and he’ll love being treated like one.
- Have him eat off the floor. You could use a dog bowl, or just make it casual, but make him stay seated on the floor. If he really needs to be taught a lesson, don’t let him use anything but his mouth.
- He needs a collar (and a leash too!). You can choose whether or not to make him wear it in public, but he should have one, so that he knows that he’s yours. Make sure that it’s the right size, and that it’s easy for you to attach a leash to. Make sure he wears it when you do anything, especially anything that is a reward. A personal favorite of mine is whenever I let him have sex with me he must be collared and leashed. I let my pet fuck me, all the time, especially when he’s been good. If I want him to be rough, but I still be in charge, then that’s where the real benefit to the leash comes in. I can hold the leash and give him a constant reminder of who he belongs to, all while getting fucked hard myself.
- Use him as a footrest. Whenever you’re sitting on the couch or in a chair, just rest your feet or shoes on him, and have him sit or stand there, without moving. If he’s a good puppy, and doesn’t move, then he gets a reward. If he’s a bad boy, and doesn’t stay still, he gets a punishment. This will help him learn that he is supposed to serve you, and that he is not supposed to think or decide for himself.
- Get him a tail. Nothing is more satisfying than having a tail plug in a boy, and watching his cute butt sway as he walks. It’ll help him get into his puppy mode, and he’ll feel the weight in his butt, which is always a nice feeling. It’ll also make him hornier, and more eager to please. You can pick the size of the plug based on your boy. He should be able to wear it for a few hours at a time, but make sure to take it out every once in a while. This will also help his whole stay prepared and stretched, in case you want to play with it.
- Teach him tricks. Teach him to do whatever you want. These should be easily communicated and he should learn to do tricks without even thinking about it. I usually have my boys fetch things, or do things for me, or even just sit there and be pretty. It’s fun to watch them do tricks, and it’s fun to make them learn. You can make the process of training them to learn these tricks a fun reward, or you can make it a punishment. Either way, he’ll learn what you want.
- He needs a cage. I’m talking about a chastity cage. Not letting him use his cock is the best way to train him to obey, and the best way to punish him. I recommend locking him in one for a few days, or longer, so that he understands that his cock belongs to you, and that he cannot touch it or without your permission. Make sure that it’s locked and unlocked by you, so that he doesn’t have the key. This can make him getting any sort of pleasure, or just not being caged a reward. There is a beneficial side effect to this: he will become very senstive and will start experiencing pleasure from things he normally doesn’t.
- Pegging. This should be a punishment and a reward. I tend to make new subs start out being fucked by a strapon as a punishment, as it will likely be uncomfortable and unpleasant (unless they’ve bottomed before). After a while, I like to train my puppy to enjoy anal play by limiting when he can use his cock, and also by making him wear a plug or play with his ass. Eventually, he’ll start liking it, and even craving it, which makes it a reward. If you keep him in a chastity cage, then eventually he’ll learn that he can cum from anal play, and that’s when pegging becomes very fun.
- Punishments and rewards. Punishments and rewards need to be clear, and he should know what each means. If you don’t explain them, then it’s a lot harder for him. I tend to reward him with his orgasm, or even anal stimulation, and punish him with denial or something uncomfortable. You should come up with a list of punishments and rewards that you think will work for your boy, and explain them to him.
- Keep him horny. This is the most important thing. Keeping him horny and wanting to please is the best way to have a fun and submissive puppies. I tend to edge my boy often, or lock him in a cage, or tease him, or keep him wanting more. I make him wear a vibrating buttplug when I’m not home, or just leave him edged, or not let him cum after we’ve played. 11. If he’s constantly horny, and is always looking forward to a reward, then he’ll be more than happy to obey. Also, don’t forget about the small things. Its not all about him, its also about you. He should be pleasing you. Make him eat you out, make him kiss you, make him pleasure you, and make him worship you. You should never have to ask, and if you do, it should be a punishment. Make him give you head, and make him clean your pussy or ass with his tongue. Make him get you a drink, or rub your feet, or whatever else you can think of. Remember, he’s there to serve you, not the other way around.
- Don’t let him make decisions for himself (optional) If you want a more 24/7 dynamic, then I would suggest taking away the ability to make any decisions from him. You should pick out what clothes he wears, where he eats, what he watches, etc. It’s a more extreme lifestyle, but its very satisfying and fun, and if done correctly, it will make him completely yours. Let him ask for permission, he certainly will, but only let things happen if you want them to. You are the one who decides. That’s my advice on puppy play! I hope it helps some people.
How to fuck your puppything
This is a follow up to my other post. If you haven’t read the other one, check it out! This is a guide on how I personally fuck my puppy boy.
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Collar. Collar. Collar. The collar is a key part to fucking your puppy boy. I like using a regular dog collar, the kind you can find at basically any pet store. I always put it on him, I never let him put it on or take it off on his own. It’s a constant reminder of who he belongs to, and he should not be able to forget it. He should wear it as much as possible. Personally I do not make my pet wear his collar in public, unless he’s being punished, and then it’s just discreet and usually under a scarf or something else that covers his neck.
- Leashes
I have 3 leashes I alternate between. I have a 3ft leash, a 6ft leash, and a 20ft leash. The 20ft is a fairly thin cable style leash, I mainly use this for when we are around the house, and I want control while still being able to comfortably move around and not be too restricted. The 6ft is a regular leather leash, and I usually use this one for most things. It’s robust, it’s strong, and it feels hot. It is just heavy enough to be felt in my hand and I know he can feel it when it’s connected to his collar. The handle for this leash also doubles as a fairly potent whip. A handful of scenarios I use this leash in are:
- Intimacy: this leash is long enough to let most things happen while still being short enough to be reeled in at a moments notice.
- Sleeping: I often make my puppy sleep on the floor, or at the foot of the bed or between my legs. He occasionally gets rewarded by being allowed to sleep with me normally, but that’s rare. I use the leash to either tie him to the bed, or almost as a tether between us; in this way it’s kind of like a security blanket between the two of us. I know he’s there, he knows I’m there.
- Walks: We do this very rarely, and have only done this a total of probably 4-5 times. We’ll go out hiking from time to time, and occasionally I like to walk him. This has been very fun, but we do not like it as the fear of being caught makes us a little too nervous. The final leash is the 3ft one, and this one is mostly used in a similar way to the 6ft leash, however, this leash is made of chain. I treat this more as our rough leash. I use this one when I want to be physically rough and forceful. The only alternative usage is for me to send my pet out with a collar and leash on to do errands as a punishment, this leash is small enough to be hidden.
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Chastity caging and why it’s necessary: This catalyzes the owner/pet dynamic so much. When your pet is wearing a chastity device, he is completely at your mercy. He will have to ask you to unlock his cage, and you have full control over that. If he wants to get off, he has to earn it, and even then you’re not obligated to give it to him. If you don’t believe me, put your pet in a cage for even a single day, you should notice a personality shift by then. He’ll be more attentive, more horny, and more desperate. You’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hand (sometimes literally), and he’ll have to fight any urges you don’t want. I tend to put my pet on a running timer of sorts; if he disobeys or displeases me, I reset the timer. I personally like to lock him when he’s at work and let him out when he gets home, but your dynamic will surely be different.
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Teasing: Tease your pet 24/7. Give him a reason to beg. The way I see it, if he’s always horny, you’re always on his mind. If he’s always begging for it, then he’s always submitting. I sext my pet every day, sometimes more. I make him watch porn, I have him masturbate (with rules), I have him send me pictures, I have him write about what he wants me to do, and I have him watch me get off.
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Training:
Training a pet is hard, and you’ll need to be very consistent when trying to condition him.
Believe it or not, puppy boys are just like actual dogs. The same training that works on dogs will work on them. The process can take weeks, and most of the time it takes longer. An example from my experience was training my boy to cum or not cum on command. I mainly trained this with handjobs. I would start playing with him, and I would tell him that the longer he lasted, the better feeling he would have, and that if he didn’t cum when I told him to, I would stop completely. First time he failed miserably and came within minutes from just my hand. The following few times he lasted longer and longer. Now I never punished him for failing, but he wanted to do better so that he would be rewarded. About a week or so in, he hit the 10 minute mark, and I changed from a handjob to a blowjob, of course he came almost immediately. We worked our way up to him lasting 20-30 minutes and then he was getting rewarded with a very good blowjob, or even sex. At this point I started telling him to cum, and when he did, he enjoyed orgasming, but every time he failed, he would beg me to keep going. He would cry, he would whimper, and he would beg. Eventually, he would be so used to obeying me and doing what I said that it became instinct. I could tell him to cum, and he would orgasm in the next 30-60 seconds. This training translated to other activities, including pegging. The whole process took 3 months before I didn’t have to remind him how to act.
- Pegging: The first few times for him will be a bad experience, no matter how gentle you are, or how turned on he is, it will be uncomfortable for him. Ironically it will be amazing for you. Pegging is a major role reversal activity, and being the one doing the thrusting and having your puppy boy just melt into a puddle is the most powerful ego boost you’ll ever experience. No matter how awesome you feel, do not just start jackhammering your pet, he will perish. After some time, he’ll get used to it, and at that point you can make it a more consistent activity. I personally peg my pet at least once a week, but it’s probably more realistic to aim for once or twice a month maximum, unless your pet is an experienced bottom. When we started, I would make sure he was caged and denied for at least a few days beforehand, and I would tease him a lot. Once I had him properly ready, I would start playing with him, and eventually finger him, and then after he was somewhat looser, I would slip the strapon in, and the first few thrusts would usually get a gasp or a moan. After that, I would keep it slow and steady. It wouldn’t be long until he would start telling me it was too much, so I would stop and let him adjust. I would push him past his limit 2-3 times and then we’d be done. Finally he stopped telling me that it was uncomfortable and then hallelujah, I was free to do whatever. You can’t expect your pet to cum from pegging, it takes a lot of practice and training, but there are other fun activities you can do. One of our favorite activities is for him to sit on my strapon and ride it. I love seeing him bounce on the dildo and have him beg for me.
- Sex!
Now, for the good part, the actual sex. I’m sure you know the basics of it, but a couple things you need to keep in mind are:
- Do not expect your pet to last for a long time, at least not the first few times.
- If you have him locked in a chastity device beforehand, he will be very sensitive, and may cum within the first few thrusts.
- This is the most likely time for him to try and take control, or try and be dominant, this is why the collar and leash is important.
- Don’t forget that you’re the one controlling him.
- Dirty talk is important. Talk to him like the dumb dog he is.
- He will probably cum a lot.
- This is a major reward, but is still a task. Do not just give it away, he needs to earn it and he needs to be sure to pleasure you when he gets the chance. Those are the main things. I like to add some other little things that help, but are not required:
- Tail plug, this helps him get into the role, and it looks cute.
- A gag, I like to think of it as a chew toy. It will make him drool.
- Make him lick you out afterwards. I love making my pet lick his own cum out of me, I don’t know why but this is very dominating. 8) Aftercare: Put him back in the cage. He should be reminded immediately that he’s just a dumb animal, and that he needs to go back into his cage. You should put his cock in the cage and then let him lay with you. He might be a pet, but he’s still your pet, and at least in my case, he’s also my husband. Make sure he knows you love him, and that you know he loves you. Make sure he has a good reason to show you unconditional love.